How do you define success for yourself?

Write a 500 word essay on the course material from this week. How do you define success for yourself? What do you see as the primary scripts influencing your decision making?



I think that I’m not success now. With me, I have a dream, an ambition. I want to be famous, to be a professor and want to know more about the world. But at this time, I’m just a doctor and work in a district health center. And for me, if I want to touch my dream, I should comeback to the city and learn more.

In another side, it’s about my personality. I want to be a good person. That’s mean you have some quality of a saint or some moral’s standards in your social. Therefore you have to practice everyday to get that perfection.

Success for myself is a thing that you strive for, not you get it. You shouldn’t be illustrated that you success because it’s never true. People will never satified with something that they had, they always want to have more. I see that in my life and I try to repair it. In some year before, I like everything  and I want to know everything. But now, I see that I should focus on onething and move to the max level of that thing. I always remind my mind about that when I feel bored, want to give up.

Something affects my decision making. My knowledge, my relationship, my freedom, my destiny. I found it when I graduated from the university and had a job for a few year. I experienced it and I will share with you some.

First of all is my knowledge. I love book, I love to find some information for my job. And every book that I read, it took me to a lot of way and give me a lot of advice when I want to make decision. For example, when I want to update my level in working, I read and I search information. It opened a door for me to come in, an ideal for a new journey to upgrade my job.

The second is my relationship. As you know that, when you work with a team like you, you feel motivate to do everything. In your company, everypeople can share you feeling, can do job well. And the lover that I met, it makes me to strive for a high level because that you want to take care of her, you want her to pround of you,…etc. A lot of reason for the relationship you have, It plays a role in my decision.

The third is my freedom. If you are free, you will have a lot of idea and when you decide something, you don’t care about what will happen.

And the last is my destiny. Do you believe that when you want to make a decision and it didn’t happen. That is destiny, you can’t say everything with a proportion of 100%. Exactly in statistic or maybe in Albert Estein’ hypothesis about  relativity.

In conclusion, success is your own define but it makes you happy and everyone happy.  

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